Hey guys, this week we are visiting with my brother and his family getting some real Texas heat. Let me tell you, I am personally not a fan of humidity like they’ve got here, but I will be here long enough just to get a taste. Today I wanted to share my thoughts with you on the topic of this thought below.
I hope you take the time to really soak up the meaning of what this means to you. I will share with all of you what self-worth means to me but what is most important is the meaning that you gain from reading this. I know we all have had different life experiences, come from different backgrounds, and have the opportunity to create magnificent futures. Let me break down my thoughts into a couple categories: strong-willed individuals, followers, and leaders.
Strong-Willed Individuals
There is something to be said about those who listen to what others say about them, but I believe individuals who are great, do not allow negative criticism from others to ever affect them. I would qualify these type of individuals as strong-willed. If people tell you that it is impossible to accomplish goals you have, prove them wrong. When others think you can’t achieve greatness, allow that to be your drive and take you to the next level. Strong-willed individuals will not break easily. They will not allow outside forces to affect their future development. They have reinforced their mental barrier to keep focused on the end goal, creating a mental toughness that very few can develop. Are you this type of person? If not, what will it take to become one?
Followers
Followers are individuals who see a new trend come out and they want a part of it. Followers are individuals who make choices based on social status and recognition. Followers have not developed the mental capacity to recognize what their true potential is or to take action for yourself instead of what others tell you to do. So being a follower can be a critical step to recognize what you are passionate for and allow you to begin your own journey. We all begin our journeys by being followers until we reach a point where we must make a decision. The decision to be yourself and forget what others think about you is key to your success. Find your reason why and make the commitment to change when you are ready. I would recommend making that change sooner rather than later so you stop wasting time dreaming and more time doing.
Leaders
Leaders are what we should all seek to become at some point in our life. Whether we become leaders of our own mind, inspiring others to change, or parenting of our own children, we can become a leader. Becoming a leader means something stands out about you. There is a natural tendency to inspire others, where individuals look to you for advice and wisdom. When others are unsure, they seek out leaders who may be able to assist others to become something more, improving their quality of life. Leaders come in all different forms…political, religious, inspirational speakers, the heroes in our lives. When you recognize a leader you connect with, don’t let go of them. Allow yourself to learn and gain as much knowledge from these individuals as possible, so that one day you can share these insights with people who come to you. Become a leader sooner rather than later…many people are waiting for you to inspire them.
In closing, remember the importance of becoming a leader today. Whether you realize your personal worth now or in the near future, people look to you as a leader. Look at the close individuals you have around you in your life…who were your leaders? What made them great leaders? You’ve got it within yourself to become great. Never forget that! I promise others look to you. You just need to open your eyes and see.